When you’re chasing kids about, trying to get some work done, and maybe even practicing a little self-care, it can become more difficult to find stolen moments of connection. Even while planning a date night during the hectic spring and summer months might be challenging, there are still a number of creative ways you can spend quality time with your partner without the distraction of children using the places and resources at your disposal. You may organize early-morning or late-night encounters at home, of course, but in a hurry, you can also use your automobile, which was a trusted place when you were a teen.
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(And there may be a slight decrease in the likelihood of a nosy person knocking)
The main reason having sex in the car is so hot is that it kind of transports you back to your teenage years when you used to sneakily have sex in the backseat while being frightened (or thrilled) of getting caught. It’s a small, enclosed room that allows you and your companion to have a lot of access to one another while testing your abilities to effectively get one other off.
But let’s face it, buckling up in a car may be challenging and uncomfortable if you aren’t as young and nimble as you were at 18 – have you ever hit your tailbone too hard on a seat belt? Ouch. However, the ideal automobile sex position can completely rock your world, leaving you with some wonderful sex toys, and leave you with some incredibly hot memories for the next time you go on errands.
Becci Collins/SheKnows Side Spoon
How to execute:
My Husband Won’t Have Sex With Me author and qualified clinical psychologist Dawn Michael explains that you can insert the penis while sitting on one chair with both individuals in the side spoon position.
Why it’s great:
Because spooning is both comfortable and effective, it continues to be a standard sex move. Spooning is a comfortable place to start if you’re anxious about engaging in conversation in the automobile for the first time (we’ve all been there before). Both couples can unwind and leave the position more easily without interruption or performance anxiety.
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How to execute:
According to sexologist and couples therapist Kat Van Kirk, “the optimum automobile position is with him sat in the passenger seat and with her on top, facing away from him for some rear-entry access.” Her legs being inside of his makes the position even better because it keeps things tight and under control.
Why it’s great:
“The woman manages rhythm and penetration. Rear entry results in increased G-spot stimulation and access to the clitoris, according to Van Kirk.
Belt Bondage/Becci Burkhart
How to execute:
She ties his hands above his head with the seat belt while he lies on his back across the backseat. Jess O’Reilly, Ph.D., author of The Little Book of Kink, claims that she scales the structure and grinds to her heart’s content.
Why it’s great:
According to O’Reilly, “This position works for women who know how to take what they want without apologizing.” She can use her position on top to massage his pelvic bone or reach down for further stimulation.
Backseat Driver/Becci Burkhart
How to execute:
According to Lisa Sweet, author of 365 Sex Thrills, “flip the front passenger seat forward and shove it as closely near the dash as you can.” “He can then lean back on the backseat on the passenger-side, his legs resting on either side of the headrest for the front passenger. If necessary, she can stoop or bend her legs so that her feet are placed outside of his hips depending on the type of vehicle and her height. She then climbs on top of him while facing away from him. She only needs to clutch the headrest to add extra turbo power and shift his gear stick up, down, and all around to take him for a test drive.
*Security first: “Turn off the car to prevent turning this into your last joy ride. Lay down a towel or another item as well to protect the seat fabric. Last but not least, drive on the passenger side to avoid unintentional horn honks when the action picks up, advises Sweet.
Why it’s great:
No of the size of the car, it’s a space-efficient decision that doesn’t sacrifice enjoyment, according to Sweet. He gets to sit back and enjoy the thrill ride while she controls the action by bumping and grinding as she pleases. Use the safety straps to tightly strap him in and limit his movement to add a touch of the wild.
Yab Yum With A Twist/Becci Burkhart
How to execute:\
Yab Yum is a traditional tantric sex position that works well for car sex. The couples sit face to face, one astride the other, in Yab Yum. In the traditional variation, the woman sits on the man’s lap with her legs encircling him in the full lotus position. He can sit in the passenger seat and she can straddle him, according to tantric sex specialists Patricia Johnson and Mark A. Michaels, coauthors of Partners in Passion: A Guide to Great Sex, Emotional Intimacy, and Long-Term Love. Of course, this isn’t particularly practical in a car.
Why it’s great:
This also allows for switching between vigorous, movement-based sex and a leisurely, meditative type of lovemaking if you’re parked in a place where you won’t be interrupted. You are able to sit quietly and take in the subtle beauty of joining your body to the body of your sweetheart. You can pulse your PC muscles to rekindle the sexual vigor if it starts to fade. A particularly pleasant method of doing this can be through pulse exchange, which is also referred to as “the secret language,” they claim.
Your bodies are close together, straight, and face-to-face, which makes this one of the most intimate sex positions for eye-gazing. Your hands are free to pet each other or excite additional erogenous zones thanks to it. Due to the quick synchronization of your breathing and emotional states, it’s also fantastic for fostering harmony and connection.
Advice: Control the tempo yourself. This turns being penetrated into an active sensation as opposed to a passive or receptive one, which frequently leads to a more enjoyable orgasmic encounter.
Trunk Space/Becci Collins
How to execute:
We’ve all been waiting for the possibility of back-door, in-car activity, and here it is. Even while it may appear difficult and acrobatic, it is entirely feasible to perform it canine-style or even to try anal in your car. Michael advises “putting one chair down and having her lean over it toward the back, with him on top of her” to try the “Trunk Space” motion.
Why it’s great:
Doggy style is a very exciting position for both men and women, and when you try it outside of your home, things may get extra weird. There are additional opportunities for touch for women, including breasts, clit, and other areas. For the guys, however, the depth of penetration might already push him dangerously close to the edge.
Becci Collins/SheKnows Road Head How to:
You anticipated this: Road head may be the defining characteristic of any memorable road trip, and it’s surprisingly simple to engage in unexpected sexual activity. According to Nicole Prause, PhD, a researcher at Span Lab who studies sexual response, “Sex” is more than just genital contact. The safer option seems to be watching the partner excite themselves if they want to try something sexy in action. However, there is enough of an increase in erratic driving with oral sex for a male driver that this is probably best simulated with the engine running after pulling over! Giving oral sex to a penis-having driver is also a very popular car activity that does not appear to result in much injury from the position!
Why it’s great:
On-the-go oral can spice up your sex life even more, especially if you’re inventive with your posture. Variety is the spice of life. “If they have a sun roof, they can stick their head out while the other is giving them oral sex below,” Michael advises.
Becci Burkhart
How to execute:
You anticipated this: Road head may be the defining characteristic of any memorable road trip, and it’s surprisingly simple to engage in unexpected sexual activity. According to Nicole Prause, PhD, a researcher at Span Lab who studies sexual response, “Sex” is more than just genital contact. The safer option seems to be watching the partner excite themselves if they want to try something sexy in action. However, there is enough of an increase in erratic driving with oral sex for a male driver that this is probably best simulated with the engine running after pulling over! Giving oral sex to a penis-having driver is also a very popular car activity that does not appear to result in much injury from the position!
Why it’s great:
On-the-go oral can spice up your sex life even more, especially if you’re inventive with your posture. Variety is the spice of life. “If they have a sun roof, they can stick their head out while the other is giving them oral sex below,” Michael advises.
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