If you’re here, you presumably have the perfect combination of curiosity and open-mindedness to want to learn more about what pegging is. A partner might have inquired about it when you switch things up of Broad City and it attracted your attention. That is not at all unexpected.
What then is pegging?
Dan Savage initially used the term “pegging” in 2001 to refer to the act of a cisgender partner using a strap-on to penetrate a cisgender guy. However, the phrase is now used to characterize the majority of penetration with a strap-on as attitudes toward gender and gendered roles of who “naturally” gives .
I don’t want to make it sound like it’s boring or dull because it most definitely isn’t! However, “pegging” can also refer to the physical act of some people having sex with certain body parts depending on who like which feelings. So while there is no cause to feel ashamed for any of your wants, there is also no reason to feel weird or ashamed about being into it. It is simply not particularly kinky or (snort) deviant in the spectrum of sexual pleasure that humans love.
How does it function?
Don’t panic if you come across something that seems too huge early on in your purchasing experience; there are smaller strap-ons intended for novices that are less intense and girthy. You are welcome to look for “tiny strap ons for pegging” as well to see if you can’t locate anything that fits. Trial and error may occur along the road, and that is absolutely acceptable!
The next step is to ensure that you are engaging in safe and responsible sexual citizenship: Check in with your partner during the actual intercourse andpractice good sex toy hygiene, which includes using condoms if you would otherwise be using condoms in addition to thoroughly cleaning your toys.
Why is it pleasant to feel?
Again, depending on the biological tools that each person carries along with them and their personal preferences, the precise mechanics of what feels good and why will differ. The quick answer, though, is that all bodies have nerve endings in advantageous locations that will be stimulated by this type of action.
The pleasure experienced by those who have penises and prostates during penetrative sex largely occurs in the prostate. The prostate is the gland that produces some of the fluids in semen, according to WebMD. even cause orgasms when they are stimulated or massaged through penetration or by stimulating the perineum (the area between the scrotum and the anus).
People with vulvas on the receiving end, however, like nothing more than the clitoral stimulation they receive from rubbing up against the toy (whether penetrating a partner with a vulva or penetrating any partner anally) (not unlike dry-humping). Some of them even have vibrating capabilities, which we definitely like. It probably doesn’t need to be explained to those who have vulvas, but know this: It feels nice for them too!
However, as the brain continues to be the most potent sex organ in humans, pleasure may also originate there.
There is an excitement and sense of validation that comes with flipping these scripts and embracing fully the type of sex that feels right to you and your body with your partner, especially if you were socialized as a cis-man and internalized the scripts about consistently being the giver of penetration and pleasure (or socialized as a cis-woman to believe you are only meant to be the receiver).
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